Sunday, 28 June 2015

Mike Tilston PHF

Wednesday 23rd July.  I make my second official visit to Aldershot Rotary Club, and it was another of those occasions when the real purpose of my visit was kept secret from most members.  Ostensibly, the DG and I had come for a second visit simply because they are one of our favourite clubs to visit. This is true, but the real reason was to award a Paul Harris Fellowship to Mike Tilston. A Paul Harris Award is the highest recognition that a club Rotarian can aspire to, and in RIBI is only awarded for outstanding service to the community. In other parts of the world it is used in recognition of a donation of $1,000 to the Rotary Foundation. I prefer the RIBI way of doing it.

                                                                      Paul Harris medal

As with the one awarded to John Brewer the other week, it was made at the instigation of Betty McClure, District Youth Chair, in recognition of many years work with the Rotary Youth Leaders Award (RYLA). Last Easter Sunday, The DG and I visited RYLA at Avon Tyrrell in the New Forest and witnessed at first hand the hard work undertaken by Mike and other Rotarians, who give up their Easter weekend every year to make the weekend a success for the youngsters who attend.

                                                                                    Avon Tyrrell

So here we were, on our way once again to PottersInternational Hotel, which is where Aldershot Rotary Club hold their meetings. The Hotel is part of the Bob Potter Leisure group, which includes the world famous Lakeside Country Club in Camberley, home of the World Professional darts Championship. His daughter Joanne is current mayor of Rushmoor, and we have met her a couple of times recently at different events.

                                                   Potters International Hotel

Aldershot Rotary Club meet lunchtimes every Tuesday, so we didn’t encounter the traffic problems we sometimes do, apart from the annoying 50mph speed limit on the entire stretch of the M3 Motorway between Thorpe and Farnborough. The Hotel is adjacent to the Army cricket ground, and occupies a peasant semi-rural position. On arrival we were met by President Ian Joiner and also Betty McClure herself, who is Secretary of the Club. There was also a warm welcome from the remarkable Geoff Clark. Geoff worked as registrar for the District Conference for a number of years, before poor health forced him to step down. He has had numerous operations and treatments,  and has many more to come, but I have seldom met a more cheerful and positive man. It wouldn’t be an understatement to describe him as inspirational.

                                                 The DG chats to Geoff Clark

The first activity of the meeting, unusually, was to make a presentation to a member of the Hotel staff. The maitred’hotel, who I only know as Vinny, hails from South India, and for several years has ensured the Rotary Club have a first class service at every meeting, and deals with any problems immediately. As we all know, such a person is indispensable in a service industry, and he is a credit to the Hotel. However, Vinny is moving on to another job, and today was the last day he would be present at the Rotary meeting. The club had made a collection between themselves and Ian called him into the room to present him with a card and a sizeable cheque, as a token of their appreciation.  Vinny was obviously surprised but accepted the gift with great dignity.

                                             Ian Joiner with Vinny and Betty

This was Ian Joiner’s last meeting as President and he reflected on a year that had seen the club grow in strength, with 3 new members inducted. Today another new member was to be inducted, a man called Mike Marler who, the DG was pleased to see, had previously been a Rotaractor. One of her challenges in the coming year as Chair of Rotaract in RIBI is to achieve greater numbers of Rotaractors moving into Rotary when they reach 30. Too often they go off and are never seen again, when we should really be keeping in contact with them. As the induction ceremony commenced there were the usual jokes about rolling up trouser legs and bearing breasts, which I understand belong to another organisation.

                                                          Mike Marler receives his Rotary pin from Ian 

What actually took place is that somebody read out the Objects of Rotary, someone else read out the 4-way Test, and Ian made a short speech in which he basically pointed out that the more you put in to Rotary, the more you get out of it. Ian brought him around and introduced him to every member, although I suspect he knew most of them already.


The next item on the agenda was the awarding of a Paul Harris to Mike Tilston.  Now, I have attended two such presentations in recent weeks, and on each occasion the honour of actually awarding the PHF was stolen from me. Today it would surely be my turn.  When I saw the medal and the certificate on the table in front of the DG, I was tempted to snatch it and not let go until I had delivered it to the recipient, with the speech I had prepared about developing the role of Consort to the District Governor . I resisted the temptation on the basis that surely this time I would be given the task.

                                                  Cricket pavilion as seen from Hotel terrace

When the moment came, and Ian Joiner announced that there was to be another presentation today, the DG picked up the medal and certificate and went up to the front of the room faster than a rat up a drainpipe. She can sure move fast when she wants to. Naturally I didn’t wish to spoil the solemnity of the occasion by contesting her right to present the award, so I just folded my arms and glared at her whilst she did the honours. It was amusing to watch Mike out of the corner of my eye as the DG explained why she was here and it took a while for him to realise that it was actually him who was getting the award. I thought he looked a bit emotional as he received it.

                                           The DG presents Paul Harris Award to Mike Tilston

As we left . I took the opportunity of wishing Mike Marler well and giving him some advice that has always served me well viz. ’Don’t volunteer for anything.’




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